Hafiz Kawin

pheww, the last few days have been really tiring...my only brother, Hafiz finally got married to Ijan...Congratulations..the wedding reminded me a lot of my own wedding...two years ago to my loving husband...it was simple and yet memorable...a lot of people came to celebrate our wedding..ahh...how wonderful it was. but then, the wedding is just the beginning of many more adventures, laughs, cries and tribulations...which comes along with the 'knot'. you are not just marrying the person you love, but also everything that your partner has in his/ or her life. marrying that person you love means that you have to learn to share the person you love with someone else. my marriage with Shuk, is filled with a lot of 'things'..i mean, we have known each other for more than 5 years before we got married and of course, after being with him for so many years, i thought i have known him. but then, being married also means that you got to know that person in person, his life, his habits, his yes and nos for certain things...pheww...a lot you know....and i also noticed that i am loving him more and more, though at certain times we do have some arguments between us..but the make-ups after each arguments brings the two of us closer to each other. being married also makes you understand more on the word "tolerate". toleration between the husband and wife is important, as the word "I" now have to be changed to "us" and "we". "i" is no longer the priority..its "us" that need to be focused on. im not saying that we should ignored the concept of individuality in marriage, but you have to make sacrifices, to make sure that everybody's happy. you still have to pamper yourself once in a while, to glam up your life with the you loved ones...oh yess, you have to..kalu tak...be prepared to share your husband with another womanla...heheheh....anyways, Congratulations and hope that you'll have a happy life together. Amin...